How can I make school mornings less rushed and more emotionally calm?
Parenting Perspective
Get your school bags, lunch, and clothes ready the night before. If at all possible, get up a little earlier to make time for peaceful presence rather than to rush more. Avoid giving lectures in the morning and speak in gentle tones. The mood can be set with a quick Dua, a tender touch, or even just sharing a blessing. Your energy is absorbed by children, so if you remain calm, they will feel more stable as well.
Spiritual Insight
Mornings in Islam are a time of Barakah. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Muzzammil (73), Verse 6:
“Indeed, rising (to worship) at night is more difficult, but more potent for focused recitation (of the remembrance of Allah Almighty). “
Starting the day with softness and remembrance aligns with Prophetic guidance. It is recorded in Sunan Abu Dawood, Hadith 2606, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
“O Allah Almighty, bless my Ummah in their early mornings.”
Before the day starts, even a shared Bismillah or a few quiet words can provide emotional stability.