How do I show my child I care, even when they share something small or silly? 

Parenting Perspective 

Sharing small things is a common way for children to explore their emotions. They could be reluctant to talk about more intense emotions later if they receive laughter, contempt, or a hasty reaction. A loving parent leans in, expresses interest, and treats the situation with care when their child says something insignificant. This could take the form of a kind smile, inquisitive follow-up inquiries, or just taking the time to listen intently. This teaches children that their voice counts, not just when they are angry or in trouble, but also when they are being their full, eccentric, inquisitive selves.

Spiritual Insight 

The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ honoured every person’s word, no matter how small the matter. His attention demonstrated a profound concern for the emotional well-being of everyone in his vicinity, especially children. It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 1919, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

“He who does not show mercy to our children and honour our elders is not one of us. “

To show mercy means to value even what seems unimportant, because it is important to the one speaking. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujuraat (49), Verse 11: 

“…do not let a nation ridicule another nation, as perhaps it may be that they are better than them… “

A child learns that their inner world is sacrosanct and that love does not need a big reason when their little story is greeted with warmth instead of mockery or impatience.